Relationships can seem easy from a distance until the moment you are in exclusive relationships with a significant other. When it has come to the point of getting intimate, partners need to be careful about how their significant other response to avoid getting into serious opposition. Sex is like glue in a relationship, it needs to meet the expectation of both parties to make the whole union healthy. Communication has been advocated as making relationships bearable, that works for intimacy as well, when people openly make their take known to their significant other, it makes it healthy. Positive consent is key if two parties are to engage in healthy sexual relations.
Consent may seem simple enough but it actually makes it clear that there are boundaries that have to be avoided. Enthusiastic consent in intimacy makes it complete. The most important things is to ensure that your partner is comfortable and that you are respectful to them in intimacy. Consent may be given by the two parties but that is not to mean that its legal consent especially where there is bodily harm. this would explain why some couples live by consent contracts which are legally binding if any of the two is to go against the stipulation. The contracts clearly show what you can do to your partner and what is not acceptable and vice versa.
The contracts are in place to prevent sexual abuse of any kind between the partners, there are agreed safewords that are to be used when one of the partners feel uncomfortable at some point in intimacy. There short term contracts that will be binding for just a few hours or even just for a night. Obtaining consent from partners to some may be misunderstood as portraying women as the gender that hates sex and men as the opposite but that is not the case. It is advisable to simplify everything around intimacy with your partner by just talking about it.
It’s only these times where people will meet and address intimacy even before they have gotten serious, however, if it does work out for the two then enthusiastic consent is easily achieved. If you understand the difference when consent has been given and, when it has been declined early in life, you will have an easy time with partners in the future. Ask questions but be crafty how you do that just before intimacy to know where your partner is at with all that. Consent is no only good for all people but the society as well in more ways than one. There will be very few cases of sex abuse if people understand and follow the rule of consent.